Help me.. i lost 250k playin baccarat, lost my house, car, my wife leavin me and she took our daughter.. now i have 378k loan and i cant pay it.. what should i do.. help me.. im so stupid i just want to kill myself..
Help me.. i lost 250k playin baccarat, lost my house, car, my wife leavin me and she took our daughter.. now i have 378k loan and i cant pay it.. what should i do.. help me.. im so stupid i just want to kill myself..
are u serious?
do u even have money left to gamble to win back your losses?
pretty kind sky! big hearted man!
i've read bout a local guy wanting to end his life in such situation (pls james, if you have such courage to jump off a tall building or drink pesticide, what are you afraid of in life therefore? what stuffs/ events can cause you that much Fear or make your legs seriously tremble??)...
story:
he was an exec earning 6k per mth, but went casino when it opened in my country in feb this yr & quite plain sailing for him initially, winning 500-1k per day consistently. one mth later, quit his job & on pretext of going to work, wld put on his workin attire, send his daughters to sch & spouse to work & then to casino himself every day in its fixed routine, ie. no one knows bout his new indulgence.
things started to turn bad in less than 2 mths that followed, whereby he got greedy & lost all his winnings during the period. then it worsen when he dugged into his combined 80k savings w spouse & lost all of it! he did mention he was placing huge bets of up to 5k per hand & when in red, went to several credit companies to take up loan, then went back to casino in a desperate bid to 'recoup' but ended up always in bad tune. the loaned amt snowballed but still he was losing badly every time he leaves the casino.
when his wife found out later starting fm the 'long-gone' savings, big quarrel erupted. He got home that night after losing in the casino, only to find that home was all alone to him. wife packed up & left together w his 2 daughters. his letter ended here w note mentioning bout suicidal act.
NOW, if you think the above story is a make-up, well i do hope so! i've read this in a note pasted on the wall of a Credit Company myself...while accompanying my best buddy to repay his loan (this once 'going-to-commit-suicide-man', my buddy, also borrowed fm this place). the creditors here are proudly betting on whether this exec is going to commit sucide or not, since they're one of the many companies whom he borrowed money fm.
My buddy was previously in such situation before. so what did he do?...he STOPPED visiting casino for 6 months, went counselling & set up various standing orders to make necessary repayments to banks & siblings! very tedious processes AND he DID NOT succeed but only after few attempts at it WITH LOTS of encouragement (ie. as a 'valuable' casino asset as he can be, this hardcore compulsive gambler sneaked into casino without anybody's knowledge to 'jus to try a few hands & leave' but GOT STUCKED & SUCKED more than couple of times!).
i noted him on 2 occasions whereby i think he's contemplating suicide. it dawned upon him that wasn't the best solution eventually. give your kidneys to someone who's yearning to live but hv such bad mal-functioning organs that he cant, but jus awaiting for death to arrive...OR... dug out your eyeballs to any who is fm sch of blind to enable him/her to see & he promised you one million repaymt...etc etc.
i think Discipline & Greed Not is always the notion behind every successful professional punter, be it baccarat or poker or any other.
However if you cannot be suited into this industry, in my humble opinion, leave it to rest & to the rest while you can better in other field.
NOW pick up James! problem = door. there're no doors made without keys so as long as there're probs, there always be the key-aka-solution! its gona be tough but hey...aren't you afraid of Death??? what can be scarier or tougher than this???
Last edited by tuasbird; 09-07-2010 at 02:27 AM.
Dude..file for bankruptcy..the new american dream..think of the thousands in the same situation..The thousands who lost millions from fraudsters like maddoff..The millions whos jobs were outsourced by greedy corporations approved by politicians who did not put constituants before lobbyist...only left with min.wage jobs that cannot cover utilities...the grief of money goes on and on..If u think u busted out hurt ur loved ones..U would not believe the incredible grief u would put on those who love u if u did urself in..Sure its a desperate feeling..but remember now to put the ones who love u first..Don't let them suffer..o.k.? BTW happy birthday skylynesr...
Listen, we just read your critical post. We deeply sympathize with you. We're really sorry to hear about your misfortunes. Please don't lose hope and definitely don't lose your mind! No mistake is big enough to take your own life! Our encouragement is for you to sit down and really think everything through. We really feel we can help you even while you are in your miserable condition. The universe has somehow sent us to be your encouragment.
The first encouragement we'd like to give you is to check out our website at www.bookofkindness.info. On the right side of the site, you can download the free e-book called The Book of Kindness and read the "Kindness and Encouragement" chapter towards the back.
The next step is to try and secure a $10,000 bankroll. With this, we will help you recuperate your losses. We are located in Las Vegas, Nevada. I am 62 years of age and have 3 boys; and my friend has 4 girls of his own. Today, not too many people are willing to help or be a blessing to others but we are happy to be a blessing to you. Life is beautiful. Don't get discouraged. If you take our advice, you will be a happy person within a short time.
We have researched, developed and designed what most people would call "The Holy Grail Baccarat Method." We have examined over 2,000 baccarat shoes (including Zumma's and Live shoes) and have not seen even 1 loss. So, if you can put together a bankroll, we can help you multiply it. If you allow us to help you, we are more than willing to do so. For more details, email or call us.
Kind regards,
Steve
You have quite a vivid imagination. People who turn positivity into negativity are not as constructive as they think they really are to the community. If you have evidence that proves that I am deceiving this poor man, then please bring it forward and present it openly. Until then, I forgive you for your misjudgment of my character.
As quoted from www.BookofKindness.info, "Kindness in words creates confidence. Kindness in thinking creates profoundness. Kindness in giving and helping others creates love."
Kind regards,
Steve
Kent,
I didn't say it would be easy to believe. Definitely though, it will take an open mind and the ability to think outside the box to really see how it is quite possible to win at any casino game. If you want to learn, just meet us in Las Vegas and we'll gladly show you. But keep in mind that we reserve the right to refuse teaching unkind people especially those who make "smart" remarks and play with sarcasm on the purpose of ridiculing others.
Quoted from the the Book of Kindness (Maintain Your Perspective | Book of Kindness), "
A man with a serious illness was taken into a hospital room. Another patient was on a bed next to the window. The two became friends. The one next to the window would look out and spend time delighting his companion with beautiful description of the world outside.
Some days he would describe the beauty of the trees. Other days he would replay the things people were doing as they walked past the hospital. Everyday he was describing how wonderful the life
was out of the hospital. The bed ridden companion grew frustrated that he could not observe the wonders his friend described. He started to dislike him and hate him. One night the patient next to the window stopped breathing. His friend rather than pressing the button for help, he chose to let him die. The patient who had given so much happiness and joy by recounting the sites outside the window was taken out from the room. The other man quickly asked the nurse that if his bed can be placed next to the window. As he looked out the window, he discovered something that makes him shake. The window faced a brick wall. His former roommate described in his imagination of a loving gesture to make the world of his friend a little bit better during the difficult time. He had acted out of selfless love.
To live happier, more fulfilling lives, when we encounter a difficult circumstance, we must keep shifting our perspective and continuously ask ourselves, “Is there a wiser, more enlightened way of looking at this seemingly negative situation?”
We walk this planet for such a short time. In the overall scheme of things, our lives are mere blips on the canvas of eternity. So have the wisdom to enjoy the journey and savor the process."
Kindly,
Steve
Steve,
Since young, I was taught by my old folks not to let any strangers know how much money I have in my wallet. I have read here regularly people asking others to meet up in casino to show how they play and win. The problem is they ask to bring huge cash, 5k and in your case 10K.
To some people, 5 or 10k is not a lot, but, to desperaro, even $100 can make them do anything as long as they can lay hand on. Maybe the American is being brought up differently, for me, carrying huge cash and meet up stranger is a big NO.
Just wonder how many people go missing in Las Vegas or AC with their bodies never ever be found? Maybe someone from those areas can shed some light on it.
It is called "Sin City" for a reason.
Crime here is very high.
Security in casinos is very tight, too.
To avoid getting robbed, just wire the money from your bank into a personal account at the casino, and withdraw/deposit chips from/to that account. It works exactly like a bank account, and so you don't need ever to handle cash. After the casino session, just wire the money back to your bank account.
When you feel like no one cares, always know that someone does. It's hard to see the light when you have been in the dark far too long. Try to open your eyes to what might seem impossible. With concentration and focus, stare long enough and you may just be able to realize that nothing is impossible.
The casinos definitely have an edge over us, but they don't have any control over our bets. The only reason why most of us lose is because we lack the control over our own bets. Mathematically, it is impossible to win over the long run. However, with some creativity and perseverance, one can prevail at any challenge.
Kind regards,
Steve
Some helpful quotes by those who have seen their own shares of failures:
"Good people are good because they've come to wisdom through failure.
We get very little wisdom from success, you know."
- William Saroyan
"Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept trying when there seemed to be no hope at all."
- Dale Carnegie
"For everything you have missed, you have gained something else, and for everything you gain, you lose something else."
- Ralph W. Emerson
"Sometimes when you lose a battle you will find new ways to win the war."
-Donald Trump
When it comes to life and especially a game like baccarat, this so rings true.
Deal-your sight has helpful suggestions as to how to conduct your life as to attitudes and what to eat and how to react to situations. All good advice. Why dont you put out your bacc system? user
It's hard to clean a mouth full of dust and when you have dust in your mouth, no one can help you except yourself.
Are you willing to starts playing with $5 minimum to gain back your confidentin the game of baccarat?
Find the right system developer and probably he will help you but with a price.
Yeah, right, and sure... typical 1-post fantasy sob-story.
Hey, how about OLD sillE? At New Blackjack, Same Old Baloney: Review of E. Clifton Davis' NBJ and WCB Blackjack Systems .
Last edited by garnabby; 09-18-2010 at 09:17 PM.
i feel really bad for this person.. if he really lost that much money...
i mean... i tell people... even you play small you will lose $100,000 in few years.... like lose $1000 a month... like house payment.. in 10 years you lose $100,000... that is the nature of gambling....
and i saw this guy from England put $100,000 on red... i believe this is more or less smart move if you want to win big....
but i will never do it.... it is crazy.... people think this way.....
okay it takes about 10 years to save $100,000.... so why not wait another 10 years to save another $100,000? and this way it is much higher percentage than putting red or black...
and also what can you do with $200,000? i mean yes you can buy house or something but not like you can live without work forever.....
i don't think people think too straight.. well, it is gambling forum, so i don't want to say much, but gambling.. i mean.. casino games pay outs aren't so good... lottery is better... you pay small and win huge.. but 50/50 chance game seems easy but you double $200 and so what?? you get good dinner and that $200 is gone and next day you go back casino and lose $200 lol
i think that is good point... but here are some problem
"experts" do not want to reveal their system....
even you learn their system to make living is different... again not everybody has "professional mind".....and this is something we really teach.. it is more like you are gifted... like your play very well under the very huge pressure.....
and there are so many people called themserlves as "expert" and we don't know which one is real expert....
I would say stay away from gambling is easiest way.. i believe going school and get degree and get solid job is much easier than trying to learn make living from gambling.. and even you learn from expert there is no gurantee you will make great living.....
I really can't wait for that very day when senlung ascends to a a higher plain of existence where he starts to end all his sentences with a verb.
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Who cares what you think and the best "adfise" to you is figure out a way to play baccarat and win consistently.
You can be here "clitizing" everyone but a loser in the game of baccarat. Stay in line with the topic.
Let the casinos contribute to our luxury life style and not let our money assisting their expansion of their properties.
Last edited by senlung; 09-21-2010 at 09:33 AM.
You sound worried with my presence here.
I am leaving your responses in cold storage facility but will be here just to make you sad,hehehehehe!!!!!!!!!
Wasted all this chat for nothing.
Start your own topic and this is hijacking. Maybe moderator is your close friend, huh!
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