Thread: How Can I Become a Better Lover?

Alright guys, I know this is a little off-topic, but I gotta get better at this!

Think about it, everyone wants to be a hero in bed! But not many of us are capable of being a hero because we keep repeating some simple mistakes in bed that can put off our partners.

So I want to know these mistakes and how to avoid them so that not only will I be a better lover but also learn to give my sex partner greater satisfaction.

So what are a list of common mistakes in bed?

One big mistake is not shaving before sex. Think about it - us guys are turned on by women because of their smooth and supple bodies devoid of hair. Just stop for a second and think how it would feel if you were to go down on her and got poked and irritated in the face and eyes by her hair! If you want your woman to go down on you make sure that you are clean-shaven down there for even a day's worth of hair can be very irritating and uncomfortable for her.

Don't expect her to swallow the first time she goes down on you. If your woman is going down on you for the first time and giving you a good head do not assume that she will swallow or get it splashed around on her face! Not many women are comfortable with this and it is your basic courtesy to inform her that you are about to ejaculate and leave the decision to her. Another point to remember is that when she is down on you do not force yourself into her mouth. Let her dictate the pace and not you.

Take off your clothes in a cool way. Most of the times we remember to take off our shirt, trouser and stand with a raging member covered by the underpants or boxers but look silly with the socks still on! Remember to undress sensibly and make sure that the socks is not the last item to come off.

Do not chew on her neck and give her marks - Hickeys are not funny. It amazes me to see the number of women with bruises on the neck after a passionate session of love-making. It is cheap and embarrassing for the woman to explain her bruises. Do not chew on her neck like there was no tomorrow.

My advice is to take care to address her "love button". Women enjoy intense clitoral stimulation as the orgasms can be explosive. However not all women like direct clitoral stimulation as it can be very intense. Remember to take it easy and do not plunge into her trousers to grab her love button. Work your way to stimulate the clitoris in a slow and relaxed manner and that makes her O's better.